Hey gorgeous! I’m Paulina! If there is one thing that I am completely sure about, it is that self-love is the key to ultimate happiness. That key opens the door to not only confidence in all aspects of your life but the ability for others to love you. Specifically for your soulmate to love you the way you deserve to be loved. All this power is within you, babe!
The media, our families, bullies throughout our childhood, society, etc. all provide us with these images in our brain of what we should look like or act like or even what music we should listen to. The majority of the time, these personas are not who we are deep inside. We form limiting beliefs and as we enter adulthood, we grow anxious and start burying our true selves. As we get older, we learn to criticize our appearance rather than boast in our own beauty. Through these limiting beliefs, we entangle ourselves in relationships that are not for our highest good. How do we expect anyone else to love us if we can’t even love ourselves?
It’s absolutely not your fault, gorgeous. However, you can change your love life (romantic, friendship and self-love) starting right now. I know it is possible as I spent my whole entire life looking for my happily ever after. The greater part of my life was spent in toxic relationships and having absolutely zero love for myself. I went through spouts of bulimia, self hatred to the point of suicidal thoughts, heartbreak to the greatest degree (though aren’t they all the most painful?), relationships to fulfill others’ dreams for me, postpartum depression and anxiety. Now I can whole heartedly say that I am with the man I am destined to be with and we have an amazing family together. I have a love for myself that no one can tear apart as I see my self worth and remind myself of it daily.
You can make the same transformation as I did. There is no secret, it’s all inside you. It just takes some support to get you there, someone to clip those wings on your back so you can fly away. Someone to remind you what an amazing woman you are and show you the qualities you bring to this Universe. Without you, the world would not be the same.
I woke up one day and decided I was tired of living a mediocre life, I wanted to live my best life, the life I always envisioned. A life filled with happiness, family and unconditional love. The first step was loving myself so I spent the time erasing my limiting beliefs, I transformed my mindset and what followed was the Universe completely having my back.
If you feel you are ready for the same transformation, head to my coaching page to find out how we can work together to help you find the beauty in you and to wake up next to your Prince Charming.